Your Guide to Hooking Up Fast

Hooking Up - the act of getting together with someone for the sole purpose of having sex. Generally describes an encounter between two people who hardly know each other and will most likely never meet again.

"Hooking up" can be anything from just making out and kissing to actual sex. For the purpose of this article, it's all about sex. Whatever your definition, it basically means you're not looking for Mr. or Ms. Right. You're looking for Mr. or Ms. Right Now. Here are a few tips to make hooking up fast and easy:

BE HONEST.

Don't waste time trying to convince someone to hook up. If you know what you want, put it out there. Let people know in your message that you are only looking for a hook up. Saying it up front lets other people know whether or not to seek you out. This makes it easy on you â€“ the people who contact you will be looking for a hook up too.

NARROW DOWN THE FIELD.

Look for messages from people who are also trying to hook up. Narrow the field by avoiding messages with phrases like "long term relationship," "getting to know someone," "take it slow," or any form of the word romance. Also, you'll want to stay away from messages that start with any variation of the phrase "been hurt before in the past." These people just want someone to talk to.

KNOW YOUR RESTRICTIONS.

Decide how it's going to happen before it happens. Is it going to be your place, their place, or some place else? There's nothing worse than finding a willing participant and then discovering you have no place to meet. It's also a good idea to discuss safe sex options before you meet. That way you don't have to be embarrassed or waste time hashing it out when you meet. Some people aren't comfortable talking about safer sex. If that's you, make the decision before the hook up to always protect yourself no matter what the circumstances. If you aren't going to ask them, you should just take it upon yourself to be safe. Also it doesn't hurt to let them know up front the kinds of things you're into. It'll make the hooking up part much less awkward.

Hooking up fast can be easy as long as you know what you want, are honest about it up front, and are only looking for people who are looking for the same thing. Be aware of the language in the messages. The biggest mistake a person can make is trying to get someone to do something they never said they wanted to do. A lot of time can be wasted talking to someone who has no intention of meeting you tonight for anything other than coffee. When you're looking to hook up, keep in mind, that a hook up is someone you may never see again. Do they really need to possess every trait you're looking for in a person? No. But, they do need to turn you on. So while it's not important what their interests are, you'll definitely want to find out what their stats are.

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